She was the third beer. Not the first one, which the throat receives with almost tearful gratitude; nor the second, that confirms and extends the pleasure of the first. But the third, the one you drink because it's there, because it can't hurt, and because what difference does it make?Toni Morrison
About This Quote
This quote illustrates the concept of self-medication. The third beer is the one that you drink because it’s there, because it can’t hurt, and because what difference does it make? Eventually, you become dependent on the third beer until you are unable to function without it.
Source: Song Of Solomon
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